Relational Intelligence for Individuals, Couples, and Leaders

Understand how relational stress patterns shape communication, connection, and the ways we respond when relationships become challenging.

Building Relational Stability Under Pressure

20+ Years of Clinical Experience | Trauma-Informed Expertise | Professional Speaking & Training

Ways to Work with Dr. Boyce

Different pathways for strengthening relational awareness, communication, and connection

Speaking & Training

Keynotes, presentations, and interactive learning experience exploring relational intelligence, communication under pressure, leadership, and healthier relationship dynamics

Books & Educational Experiences

Books, practical resources, and engaging educational experiences that bring relationship competencies to life across ages and stages.

Therapy & Relational Support

Trauma-informed therapy and Relational Intelligence Sessions for individuals, couples, and parents seeking greater awareness, stronger communication, and healthier relationships.

Relational Intelligence™ at Work

Workplace-focused learning and development through Multiple Avenues to Success, supporting communication, accountability, and relational effectiveness.

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Meet Dr. Boyce

I believe that understanding what happens to us under relational stress is essential to understanding how we communicate, connect, and navigate conflict.

Over the course of my clinical work, I've observed how protective responses that once helped people navigate difficult experiences can also create challenges in their present relationships.

These observations inform The Relational Intelligence Pathway™, the model I developed to help people recognize relational stress patterns, understand their responses, and build greater relational stability.

My work is grounded in a simple principle: greater relational awareness creates opportunities for more intentional choices, healthier communication, and meaningful connection.

The Relational Intelligence Pathway™

A trauma-informed model for understanding how stress shapes connection and how healthier relational patterns are built over time.

Journey to the Heart's Garden

Seeds of Friendship

FEATURED BOOK

Growing healthier relationships, one seed at a time.

Discover a beautifully illustrated children's story that introduces the 20 Relationship Competencies™ through friendship, reflection, and meaningful conversations.

The journey continues through interactive author experiences for schools, early learning centers, and community organizations.

Journey to the Heart's Garden: Seeds of Friendship
$19.99

A beautifully illustrated, therapist-informed children's book that invites young readers into a journey of friendship, emotional growth, and meaningful connection—one they'll return to again and again.

Includes a complimentary Parent Resource Guide that extends the experience beyond the story.

Perfect For

  • Children ages 5–9

  • Families and caregivers

  • Classrooms and educators

  • School counselors and therapists

  • Libraries and youth organizations

  • Social-emotional learning (SEL)

Overview

Set in Prospect Park, Brooklyn, Journey to the Heart's Garden: Seeds of Friendship follows Malachi and Malik as they discover the 20 Relationship Competencies™ through kindness, curiosity, and friendship. Through engaging storytelling and beautifully illustrated scenes, children are gently introduced to the foundational relationship skills that help them build empathy, strengthen emotional awareness, and develop healthy connections with others.

When the story ends, the journey continues. Children are invited to return to the beginning and discover one hidden heart on every page, transforming each reading into a new opportunity for observation, conversation, and connection.

Continue the Journey

Designed as a gentle extension of the story, the Parent Resource Guide helps families continue growing together through simple, meaningful moments.

Inside you'll discover:

  • Conversation prompts

  • Printable reflection activities

  • Co-regulation practices

  • Everyday connection ideas

  • Role-play scenarios

  • Practical social-emotional learning tools for home

Insights

Explore perspectives on relational intelligence, trauma, communication, and the patterns that shape how we connect and respond under pressure.

Common Questions

Whether you're seeking personal support, professional learning, or resources to strengthen relationships, discover the ways to engage with Dr. Boyce's work.

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